Our family members were very Blessed to have been born in the Past which finding Love for them sure came very Easy for them when the Good Old Fashioned women were around since today it is a Totally Different story. They would like for dating friends years now maintain the fiction that love happens spontaneously without their bothering to think about it. Being friendly and inviting, is not the same thing as seeming desperate. Dom: Knowing I have the space and security to be imperfectly me.